Kids and Dogs: How to Safely Approach a Dog
Kids and Dogs: Who doesn’t love a cute dog? Those puppy eyes and soft fur and unconditional love are only a few ways dogs have made it to man’s best friend status. Kids, and all people really, see a cuddly dog and their first thought is to approach it. This is especially true if they have a furry friend at home and feel safe in their presence, but not all dogs are safe to approach. For this reason, it’s imperative to know how to approach a dog, whether they are encountered at the park, on a walk or at a friend’s home.
Please be aware, even if you have met this dog in the past, still always approach cautiously. The dog might not recognize you right away if you meet up somewhere other than where the dog is used to seeing you. Just as we do, dogs have bad days: they may be in pain, stressed by an earlier situation or in an unfamiliar area. In those cases, a dog would react much differently than when you met them on your friend’s couch.
Here are some great tips for kids and dogs:
- Never approach a dog, let the dog approach you. Even if the adult with the dog says it’s okay
to pet the dog, the dog might not want touched. Ask the dog and let the dog
choose if it wants to interact with you. Do this by patting your leg and asking the dog
if they want interaction by saying, “Here puppy, here puppy.” If the dog comes
to you, they are open to interaction.
- Slowly walk sideways toward the dog – don’t walk
directly at them or reach out to the dog, as this could be seen as an
aggressive or threatening move. Have your hand next to you and not reaching towards
the dog. You want the dog to understand that you will do him no harm. Remember,
the dog doesn’t know you, either. Make a
fist and hold it down at your side and allow the dog to sniff it. You’re less
likely to be severely injured with a closed fist than an open hand.
- When first meeting a dog, begin by petting under
the chin. It’s more difficult for a dog to turn its head downwards quickly;
whereas, if your hand is above their head, they can reach up to bite you with
ease. Parents: always have your hand over the hand of your child if they are
petting a dog. This way you can tell how rough the child is petting and you also
protect your child’s hand with your own should the dog turn to bite. Teach
children to pet slowly, gently, from shoulder to tail, but never to pull or tug
- Start by only petting the dog for 3 seconds. If
the dog wants more, they will lean in or move to the petting hand. This may
seem like a very short time, but think of how long someone gives a handshake
when first meeting another person. At this point, you’re simply introducing
yourself to the dog.
- Don’t excitedly run up to a dog or allow your
child to do so. An unknown dog could be aggressive to people, or not like
children, or not have experience with children. Timid or shy dogs will react
out of fear and can become aggressive.
- Don’t stare directly into the dog’s eyes; they
can see that as a challenge and react negatively. You don’t know this dog, and
this dog doesn’t know you. Don’t come up behind a dog or startle it.
- Allow personal space! Never put your face in a
dog’s face! Don’t try to hug a dog, especially around the neck, or lean over a
dog or attempt to pick up their feet to “shake” or manipulate the dog in any
- Don’t force dogs to do something they don’t want to do – even if your dog at home tolerates a behavior, that doesn’t mean all dogs would. Don’t grab at their face, tails or paws. If you notice the pet is moving away from you, licking their lips, getting wide eyed or continually yawning, these could be signs the dog is becoming stressed and it’s time to end the visit. If the dog becomes instantly stiff and freezes move away immediately – they are planning to lunge or bite.
Some dogs are friendly and open to interaction and some are not, just like people. A dog could be stressed, in pain, or not used to children. Kids and dogs can get along well. Knowing how to approach a dog and how to respect their space will go a long way in reducing the number of bite incidents each year.
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